New Relationship with Someone Nice?

If you have been single for a while and are not used to being with someone who honors and cherishes you, you may have the new relationship jitters.  Many times when we are so accustomed to being attracted to the men that break our heart, our mind plays tricks on us when a Prince Charming shows up.  Each time you go on a date with Mr. Nice, you are finding flaws and reasons to bail out of the situation.  There may be an intense pressure in your chest of panic at the end of the evening when you are thinking about that good night kiss.  Rest assured, this may just be Mr. Wrong again because of lack of chemistry.  But…what if it was “HIM” and you pushed him away because of your own unhealed issues?  The subconscious likes to keep things the same.  So, if you are always used to being heartbroken, your inner mind may pull you back from someone who treats you nice just because it is a new feeling.  Since the subconscious does not have any logic to it and doesn’t like change, it just repeats old patterns even if they are outworn.

The best way to know the difference is to keep dating the nice guy to determine if it is your lack of self-love that is repelled by someone actually loving you or if he is just not for you.  Dating is a fun adventure if you look at each person as a mirror of your inner self.  The law of attraction will always magnetically draw to you the person that matches your subconscious programming.  Do you ever notice that you have instant chemistry with the womanizers or casanovas?  That is because your subconscious is used to heart break and feels safe around them because it is predictable.  Our conscious mind may not read the “Mr. Wrong” sign on his forehead, but your subsconsious does.  Pay attention to the patterns of men you are attracting and discover your inner most thoughts and beliefs.  My visualization, self-hypnosis program on “Accepting Love in a New Relationship” is great to overcome those old dysfunctional patterns and really allow the love in that you deserve.