As the New Year approaches, you get to choose what to bring with
you in the coming year and what to leave behind. You can get stuck in
your dating life when you are constantly focusing on past mistakes and
predicting the future based on what happened before.

To get off to a fresh start in 2009, make a list of all the things
you want to let go of in 2008 and burn the paper. Make sure you release
old resentments, ex-lovers and any limited ideas of your romantic
future.

Then, take out a new paper and write your intention of what you
want to create in 2009. This is very powerful as eighty percent of the
goals you write down come true. Make a clear command to the universe of
your desires for 2009. Be as specific as you like, even down to the
color of your true love’s eyes.

You create your own reality, so what are you waiting for? The universe has been waiting to take your order.