What about Sex and Dating?

When you are not in a committed relationship, some find it beneficial to have a buddy they can turn to for sexual fulfillment. While that may take the edge off, what it really does is send mixed signals to your subconscious about what you really want in a relationship. Your actions speak louder than your conscious desires, and your inner mind pays attention to what you are doing as well as what you are consistently thinking.

While having the Mr. Right Now approach may work for some people, I see it being more of a distraction and postponing the arrival of someone that is right for you. If your subconscious sees that you are settling for a second-rate relationship, it continues to create more of that in your life. By saying "no" and honoring your true desires both mentally and physically, you become clearer on your intentions and manifest the relationship of your dreams more quickly.

Happy Dating!