Online Dating Tips – Hypnosis Can Help

Watch Deb’s ABC News Interview on successful online dating with the help of hypnosis. Learn how easy it is to be hypnotized and increase your dating confidence.

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Who is your dating influence?

Who has been the biggest influence on your romantic life? I used to think that my Dad had such a terrible impact and I blamed him for all of my romantic failures. I saw a strict, distant man and this limited way of looking at him only kept me in a cycle of heartache as I continued to attract emotionally-unavailable men.

After I healed that relationship and saw the real man behind the stern facade, something changed. He continued to have a big impact on my dating life because he showed me how loving and compassionate men can be even with their hard exterior. When I became aware of his gentler, loving side, I started being attracted to the nice guys which ultimately led me to the love of my life.

So, take a look deeper beyond the surface of the person you blame for your failed relationships and see if there is something more to them. By opening your mind to another possibility besides the old opinion you carried throughout your life, you may be surprised at what you discover about them. This relationship is the foundation of all others. What you see in them, you will see in all of your romantic partners. Isn’t it time to see something new?

Are you in a love recession?

While others complain of their shrinking paychecks, you may be worried about the diminishing dating pool. Are you in a love recession?

What you need in times like this is your own stimulus package. Here are some tips to create more love in your life and feel abundant no matter what your social status.

1. Place a moratorium on complaining about being single.
Don’t whine to your friends and avoid mentioning to people how hard it is to be in your situation. Your subconscious is always listening to you and will reinforce those negative ideas, only making them stronger. Try to have a complain-free week and see the difference in your attitude.

2. Treat yourself to something fabulous.
Whether it be a pedicure, a massage or something free like a beautiful walk or drive to the beach, adding a little something extra just for you will lift your spirits and help you feel more in control of your own happiness.

3. Mirror Exercise
Look directly at yourself in the mirror and smile. Even if you have to force it, just be with your beautiful self for at least five minutes. Focus on all of your wonderful qualities. Do this every morning and you will be amazed at how great your day unfolds.

4.  Skip
Yes, skip. Even if you are in a busy city, skipping a little brings that playful side out in you. Imagine that as you skip you are kicking off all bad feelings and become lighter and lighter.

5.  Self-Hypnosis
You know I needed to include this one. Either listen to a pre-recorded cd or get into a relaxed state either first thing in the morning or at the end of the day and retrain your repetitive thoughts to ones that support your desires. Close your eyes and imagine being in the arms of your true love. Generate that love feeling every day to act as a “love magnet” drawing him/her into your life.

All these ideas have one basic ingredient – choice. You can choose to shift old behavior or stay in your existing patterns. You may discover some other stimulus activities that work for you but the important thing is that you do something different. Escaping the status quo will undoubtedly happen when you choose to new way of being.

There is a great love already inside of you just waiting to be awakened. When you access this incredible source of power, you become irresistible to the opposite sex. Go ahead, it is okay to shine.

Do You Deserve A Dating Oscar?

Celebrities get awards for their great acting, but do you think you deserve an Oscar for one of your dating performances? Many dating experts will give the advice that you should ACT confident and do all the right things to get to the second date. Following this approach you may end up acting your way into a relationship that is based on false pretenses. At one point you will have to face your mate as your real self, and then what?

If you feel as though you need to act different than you are, you are shutting your true self out and lowering your self-esteem. If you put on a mask, you are ashamed of what is underneath and, no matter how hot you look in that black cocktail dress or Armani suit, your self-hate will eventually be revealed.

Instead of changing, you can simply accept yourself unconditionally right now. By loving yourself even with your wrinkles, extra bumps and quirky ways, your confidence will naturally increase. Beneath the surface there is nothing but beauty and love…so why hide it?

Get out there and be your amazing self. There is someone out there looking for someone exactly like you.

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Making A Quick First Impression – Speed Dating Made Easy

1. Your date will last anywhere from 3 to 6 minutes depending on the
event. First impressions can make or break your experience. Make sure
that you dress appropriately (nice casual or business casual – if
coming from work) is usually perfect. No t-shirts, etc. Be
well-groomed, people appreciate it when you put some time into your
appearance for these events. Bring some breath mints to increase your
confidence.

2. Turn off your cell phone! You will be engaged
in many lively conversations for short periods of time. You don’t want
to be distracted by a ringing phone – it also makes a bad impression.

3. Smile! Be interested!

4.
Relax and have fun, no matter what. Be in the moment and be determined
to leave all expectations at the door and just enjoy yourself! Decide
before you get there to have a great time and you will have a great
time – guaranteed!

5. You will receive your results by private email so you can feel free to mark your scorecard without any reservations.

6.
Arrive and check in early to mingle and get in on the drink specials
before you begin speed dating. You will have time to relax before the
dating begins.

7. If you come with friends, don’t sit near one
another! You will be tempted to eavesdrop or engage in multiple
conversations at once, which would defeat the purpose.

8. Make sure to compliment everyone you meet by stating how nice it was to meet them!

9.
If you are unsure how to mark your scorecard for a particular
individual, mark them as a “yes” and keep the door open, you never know!

10.
Don’t take too many notes. Your eyes will be on your paper rather than
on your date and they will get the impression that you are not
interested even if you are. Mark down something unusual about a job or
comment that will jog your memory about them and then enjoy the
conversation.

11. Keep the conversation light! This is just an
introduction, not an entire date. Subjects to keep off limits include:
past relationships, frustrations or annoyances, traffic, weather, etc.
You might want to think up some conversational questions that you can
ask each date that are light and fun. (aka “If we could be sitting
anywhere in the world right now, where would you like to sit.

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Speed Dating Tips on Love Coach Show

Tune in to the Love Coach Show Today at 4:30pm when Love Coaches Debra Berndt and DeAnne Hirsch discuss tips for speed dating.  Come back here to listen to the replay or listen live every Wednesday at 4:30pm on Real Coaching Radio Network. Find out how to attract healthy dating relationships!

NYC Singles – Shocking Statistic

According to data 2006 US Census Bureau – there are 210,820 MORE ADULT SINGLE WOMEN than men (ages 20-64) in the NYC Metropolitan Area.  So much for Sex and the City, if you are a single woman in New York the odds of meeting a single man are against you.

However, you can increase your chances by increasing your confidence and subconscious thoughts directed at success in love. No matter what the statistics show, the women who have the right mind-set are the ones who will lift themselves out of the singles pool.

Check out AttractLoveToday.com and get your free mp3 download to start feeling sexier right now!  Tune in the Love Coach show every Wednesday at 4:30pm EST to find out how you can get your mind in the right place for love.

Love Coach Show – Airs Wednesday at 7:30pm EST – Topic: Victimization

Join Love Coaches Debra Berndt, Certified Hypnotic Love Coach (attractlovetoday.com) and Elaina McMillan, Certified Hypnotherapist (hypnotica-love.com) on the Love Coach show this Wednesday night at 5:30pm MST/7:30pm EST to discuss victimization in relationships.

Are you always getting hurt, dumped or mistreated in relationships? 

Have you felt that it has always been the same heartache with every girl or guy?

Do you hope that your luck is going to change but do not do anything about it?

Learn how to identify the patterns of your romantic life and how to escape the trap of victimization.  Visit realcoachingradio.com for the live broadcast!

Relationship Dating Techniques – Giving Up

There may be a time in your dating life when you just feel like
giving up. After a string of bad dates or a letdown from someone
you really liked, some single people lose faith and start to
imagining growing old alone. Even though the positive psychology
people will tell you to "just think positive," it is difficult when
you are in those shoes. I can easily identify with my clients who
start to become impatient. After all, I waited until I was 41
until I met my true love!

There is nothing I can say to make you feel better except to honor
whatever emotion you are feeling. Allow yourself to feel sad,
frustrated or depressed as long as you don't stay there. As you
give yourself the opportunity to fully express those feelings
(journals are always great for this), they will quickly pass and
you can get back out there and date again. Letting go helps to
release the tension inside and allow love to flow into you life
more easily.

For more relationship dating techniques, visit attractlovetoday.com

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