Five things that stop you from attracting what you want

There are tons of books and articles about the law of attraction and many of them tell you how to attract money, love or health. They make it sound so easy and you wonder why you aren’t getting the results that you want. If you feel like you are failing to shift your current circumstances, review these five common blocks that prevent you from attracting your desires:

1. Desperation – When you are holding the energy of desperation, you are really saying to yourself, “I don’t trust.” You get what you focus on, so shift your focus to faith and you should see a new outcome emerge.

2. Incompatible Action – When your actions are not aligned with what you want, you block the flow. Whether you just sit around and wait for a check to arrive in the mail, or date unavailable men while hoping to find a committed relationship, both inaction and misaligned action sends a signal to the subconscious mind that you are not really serious or focused on your goal.

3. Peers and Family – If you are focused on creating change in your life but there are people around you that do not want you to grow, it is more difficult to attract new realities. Many people who do not want to live their dreams often pull down those who reach for them, secretly hoping them to fail. Some people you may have to be around for family obligations, but the less time you spend with the “dream stealers” the more you will see an increase in your results.

4. Complaining – One of the biggest energy drainers in your life is complaining. Practice giving yourself seven days without a complaint and watch what changes around you. When you complain, you focus on what is wrong and you get what you focus on.

5. Believing what you see – Yes, this is a big one. Most people look at their life as a fixed circumstance. Since they do not see the money, love or weight loss they want, they have a hard time believing it is possible. Instead of believing in their dreams, they focus on the current reality as if it will never change. Start believing in the unseen and miracles will begin to occur all around you.

One last bit of advice when trying to use the law of attraction to bring change into your life. Trust in the process as life unfolds to you. Something unexpected, and sometimes unwanted, can be the bridge for a new reality. Even the darkest times have their gifts. Napoleon Hill in the book “Think and Grow Rich” says, “Every adversity, every failure and every heartache carries with it the Seed of an equivalent or greater benefit.”

Money Anxiety Freedom – REPLAY

Everyone is talking about the economy, lost jobs, credit card debt, foreclosures and health care reform. I have noticed that many people are in deep financial fear and that making more money is NOT the answer to heal your suffering. It may seem like a short term fix, but the anxiety you feel is the real problem and it will always be there as long you as make money more significant than the powerful being that you are.

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Law of Attraction – 5 Ways to Shift Your Attraction Vibe

Many of my clients are familiar with the law of attraction and no matter how many courses, programs and books they read about it, they still seem to feel stuck. There are so many variables to using this law that are not explained by those who claim it to be SO easy. I hear many people say that they are so hard on themselves for not doing it right. Well, you are always using the law of attraction because it is always working. The problem is that you may not be applying it to attract what you consciously want. Here are some tips to help you shift the vibe and see miracles start to occur in your life.

1. Be open to any possibility. You may want to attract a certain type of person, money or a specific job, but there is a wisdom inside of you that knows exactly what you need. Trust in that intelligence and be open to what shows up for you. Maybe you are attracting what you want but you haven’t seen through the whole picture yet. Sometimes not getting what we ask for is also a sign that something even better is on the way.

2. Change the subconscious. Of course, many of those who are familiar with my work know that this is a huge component for success in getting what you want. Even if you do think positive on the surface, the subconscious mind could be holding a different idea and block your attraction vibe. Self-hypnosis is the best way to reveal subconscious blocks and amend them to get you back on track.

3. Watch Your Energy. You may be thinking positive but still feeling doubt or impatience around attracting what you want. If you are fearful about money or finding love, you are sending a strong signal to the subconscious that you really don’t believe you can have it. This immediately stops to flow to you and creates more of the same lack in your outer world. I just created two clearing programs to address these issues for money and love. Money Anxiety Release and Dating Anxiety Release. Getting your energy back on track will support you in abundance.

4. Protect Your Mind from Negative Messages. Whether it is the television, radio or even the crowd you hang out with, these outer influences penetrate your subconscious mind and hypnotize you unwillingly. Surround yourself with supportive people and happy movies and songs. Your mind will get the right idea.

5. Be Grateful. You hear this all the time but this is such an important element to attracting what you want. If you go through a list of ten things every day that you are grateful for, your energy vibration will that of abundance and love. This higher vibration sends out a signal to the universe that you want more of it. Check out my Gratitude Video – it’s free!

Don’t be too hard on yourself. Life is tough enough as it is. Go with the flow and be happy and grateful in the here and now. Follow those good feelings and more good will flow to you constantly. Remember that nothing out there in the world can make you any happier than you could be right here in this moment. Relax and be in the present to make every day a miraculous adventure.

Money is not out there

During these uncertain times, many are wondering why the law of attraction is not working for them. Any attempt to manifest money seems to be futile no matter how much meditation, EFT tapping or visualizations they perform. You see, the law is always working but what people tend to struggle with is the quality of energy they put into it. One simple reason for lack of results is the focus of the person…they are directing their attention outside of themselves.

The source of money is not “out there” but inside. All things come from you and your mind first before it is created in the external world. Unfortunately, you are probably so conditioned to believe that things come to you instead of being created from you.

In order to manifest unlimited wealth, you must first recognize the power within you to create your own reality. Acknowledge that you have created your current financial circumstances and by doing so you can then believe that you can change your situation. The famous Wallace Wattles says to use your will toward yourself by directing your mind on what you want. This means that you should stop reaching outside to get it and pull your energy and focus inside so that the abundance can appear to you.

Of course, you must take action but the steps you take should never come from a place of grasping. As you hold the energy of need you are reinforcing lack in your subconscious mind. The only way to hold this vibration of unlimited wealth is to stop paying attention to what is in front of you and maintain the belief that you will get what you intend even if you cannot logically understand how it will occur.

That said, this is not something easily mastered as you have been conditioned to think just the opposite your entire life. With practice, you can get into the habit of holding the feeling of abundance and will see more consistent results. The good news is that even a slight adjustment can make an incredible impact on your financial future. Daily self-hypnosis is a powerful way to give your mind training wheels and shift the root of your thinking into the direction of success.

The cool thing about life is that you get tons of do-overs. No matter what pattern of thought you were stuck in yesterday or even an hour ago, you can begin creating a new future now. All of your desires are already a seed of potential inside of you, learn to find, nurture and watch the roots of prosperity grow from within. Money does not grow on a tree, wealth is cultivated in the mind.

Hypnosis for Manifestation

This program is one of the most popular in my collection – Manifest ANYthing! – download it today for only $19.97 and watch your dreams become reality with the power of your mind and a little self-hypnosis.  All programs are guaranteed for your satisfaction. Read the reviews below:

Manifest Anything is one of Amazon’s happy little surprises–it’s too soon to tell if I’m going to manifest my own “anything” (my goal is rather long-term), but I can say that everything about this CD, from the recording quality, to the very pleasant and soothing voice, to the visions it inspires, is absolutely top-quality. Manifestation aside, it’s like a visit to the spa, and you emerge from the experience feeling rested, energized, and full of confidence that the rest of the day will go well.

I noticed that a reviewer of another of Debra Berndt’s cds was disappointed that the length of the session on that CD wasn’t very long. This one isn’t, either, but that, in my estimation, is one of its strengths. I have other CDs of this genre that range from half an hour to an hour, and frankly, I just won’t use them because it takes too large a chunk of my time to use them regularly as I should. At about 15 minutes, this session is perfect–and trust me, it’s packed with valuable imagery and suggestions. It’s the best 15 minutes of my day!

If you have a spare 15 minutes, give this one a try. I think you’ll be glad you did!

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I LOVE your Manifest Anything! program. Ever since I started listening to it, I have seen so many shifts in my life. A new business opportunity which I am really excited about and is taking off. Your program helps me remember that I am in control of my own destiny. Thank you for what you do!

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Gift of Layoffs – New Career, Great Life

In my recent past, I used to drive to my high-paying internet marketing job in my new Jeep Grand Cherokee with plush seats and stared at the beautiful flatirons near Boulder, Colorado. I watched the other commuters share the same experience of traffic, listening to the same worn-out morning radio and wondered if they also thought that there was something more than the corporate lifestyle. How I wanted to leave this company’s prison but felt safe in my cushion of financial comfort and predictability. Every day I wondered if there was a way I could escape and do what I love to do…really make a difference by helping people. But, how?

Being single and solely responsible for my income, I did not see how I could ever leave my paycheck and shift careers. I witnessed friends who were in the services industry struggle with their businesses and trying to make ends meet. I was resolved to stay inside my box even though my heart was aching for more. Each day when I entered my office I wondered if there was ever going to be a way out.

Over the span of four years, I was laid off three times. During each work hiatus, I researched other businesses and settled upon hypnotherapy as a career choice. I was really intrigued about the idea of working with the mind and helping others but hesitant as to whether that would bring in enough money to satisfy my lifestyle. During one break, I was really close to taking a chance and planned to take a hypnotherapy training course, but then I was offered another job. I succumbed to my material needs and filed away the application for the school. I stayed on the mailing list and each time I would get a brochure in the mail I would say, “Someday.”

Whenever we have a strong desire, the universe provides a way for us to attain our goals if we are open to the opportunities that are around us. I remember the day when I got the news about the company cutting back and my job was going to be eliminated. I had a surge of anger and then fear – what was I going to do? Then, as if a huge hug surrounded me, I heard the words in my mind, “It is time.”

The severance package and unemployment benefits covered my expenses until I finished school. On the first day of class, the teacher came in and said to the group, “I want to congratulate you on making this choice. You are about to do the most sacred work on the planet. You will help people see their own true divine nature.” I knew at that moment I was in the right place.

I started my hypnotherapy practice over five years ago and now earn twice as much money as I did in my last corporate job…working part-time. I am not going to say it was easy. The first year was really tough, the hardest and also most rewarding year of my life. I did not have a husband or wealthy parents to support me. I had no savings, advanced degrees or friends in high places. I was the underdog. All I had was my passion and willingness to do whatever it took to succeed. I prayed, I laughed, I celebrated and I cried that first year. When things were tough, I used the tools I learned to focus my mind on success and the breaks always seem to show up just when I needed them. I learned through this process that I could do anything.

There is no greater feeling than to discover and succeed in your life’s work. Everyone has a special talent to share with the world and will be supported as they move out of their comfort zone to reach their dreams. If you are too scared to make a change on your own, the universe will come along and give you a little push. Even when your dreams seem so far off, you will be shown the way.

I am forever grateful for the staff at Hypnotherapy Academy of America in Sante Fe, New Mexico where I received the training and critical foundation for all I do now. Thank you for believing in me and giving me the tools to create my new life.

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Hypnosis for Wealth – ABC News Interview

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Increase Confidence Hypnotic Video

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Changing Your Relationship with Money

The amount of money that flows into your life is directly related to your inner relationship with the dollar bill. Since childhood, we have been programmed to believe certain things about money.

Money is the root of all evil, blessed are the poor, rich people are jerks, or simply that there is never enough. These old ideas are deeply embedded in your subconscious mind and determine whether you attract or repel wealth.

Different than the deeper mind, the conscious mind is your present moment awareness including your five senses and your will. This is a very small part of your experience. The conscious mind is the logical and analytical part of your thinking.

Beneath your conscious awareness is the subconscious which holds all of your belief systems gathered throughout your lifetime, including ideas about money. You may have certain beliefs of your self-worth, confidence or intelligence that gets in the way of attracting riches. Even if you are lucky enough to win the lottery or get a great bonus, you have a good chance of ending up broke again if you do not believe that you deserve to be rich.

In order to increase your cash flow, you need to change your relationship with money on the subconscious level. If you want riches and you consistently seem to struggle in business or have “bad luck” with money, you may have deep beliefs about money that are not in alignment with success.

The subconscious isn’t logical but has an amazing power over your life. Everyone and everything in your world is a mirror of your subconscious belief system. Anything that you want in life, such as money, love, health or happiness, must be in alignment with your deep mind for you attract it into your life.

In order to change the deep beliefs on the subconscious evel, you need to find a way to bypass a filter that kicks out new ideas that do not match the ones that are already there. If the idea such as “money flows to me easily” doesn’t agree with your inner mind, the filter rejects it. That is why most affirmations don’t work because they just remain on the conscious surface and rarely affect the subconscious belief system.

The way you can change subconscious ideas is first to identify your limiting beliefs and then reverse them to positive statements. Get a piece of paper and write down all of your beliefs about money. You will be amazed at how many ideas are affecting your current financial situation. Make sure you reverse all of those unwanted attitudes on a separate piece of paper and throw the old paper away.

After you have identified the beliefs that block you from money, the best way to change the subconscious is through relaxing the mind through self-hypnosis so that your critical thinking is suspended to allow the new ideas to “sink in” to the subconscious. One suggestion in a hypnotic state is equal to one thousand affirmations said consciously.

Even though self-hypnosis gives you more rapid and lasting changes than simple affirmations, you need to be patient. It takes at least thirty days of continuous programming to make a permanent shift in your belief system. You have millions of thoughts each day. Self-hypnosis is like training wheels for the mind to get
your thoughts in alignment with unlimited wealth.

By changing your deep beliefs and shifting your habitual thoughts from lack to endless possibilities and abundance, you can attract enormous amounts of wealth. Regardless of economic conditions, there are plenty of opportunities for bringing more money into your life and the only scarcity is what you allow yourself to

believe.

You are in absolute control of your life when you become a master of your thoughts.

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