Money Anxiety Freedom – REPLAY

Everyone is talking about the economy, lost jobs, credit card debt, foreclosures and health care reform. I have noticed that many people are in deep financial fear and that making more money is NOT the answer to heal your suffering. It may seem like a short term fix, but the anxiety you feel is the real problem and it will always be there as long you as make money more significant than the powerful being that you are.

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This teleseminar is not about a quick fix or rituals to get money fast, but a way to become the master of your life by clearing the anxiety about money so that you can be free of its grasp. The energy you are holding around money is what is blocking you from getting more. Once you clear that block, the money will flow but you will have also gained control over the power the green paper once had over you. You’ll be more at peace regardless of what is in your bank account.

Learn some techniques on how to ease your anxiety over your finances and get some free live group hypnosis.

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Hypnosis For Holiday Stress

Learn how hypnosis can help ease stress any time of the year, especially during the hectic holiday season.  See ABC news interview with Debra Berndt, Clinical Hypnotherapist and Relationship Expert in Denver and New York.

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Meditation to Reduce Stress

Need love, money or better health? Using meditation along with hypnosis can help you get your mind aligned in the present moment and experience more inner peace. Check out NY Love Coach, Debra Berndt’s interview on ABC News in Denver.

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Hypnosis for Wealth – ABC News Interview

See Debra’s interview on ABC News in Denver regarding the use of self-hypnosis to increase wealth.
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Rumi Relaxation Visualization

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Increase Confidence Hypnotic Video

Watch a beautiful waterfall while listening to hypnotic suggestions to increase your self-esteem and belief that you are worthy of good things in life.
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Hypnosis for Health

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How to Stop Fear From Running Your Life

In these trying times, many are concerned about their jobs, investments and the future of our great country. According to the law of attraction, what you think about you create more of in life. Listening to the news and talking with friends and co-workers, your mind is constantly flooded with negative ideas, impending doom and the supposed sad reality of the current state of affairs. The subconscious mind is conditioned to react in these circumstances not out of faith but out of fear. To stop fear from running your life, you must become more conscious of your thoughts and where they are leading you.

If you allow fear to run your life, you can be pulled into darkness of your deepest anxieties and ultimately make unclear decisions. The fear will drive you to seek solace in money, food, mind-altering substances and other things of the world that can never bring you the salvation you desire. You will always be left wanting more, never satisfied and ultimately defeated. When you get to that point you may give up, become sour on life and disconnect from your spiritual practice. Fear has won.

You see, the fear was created because of your attachment to these worldly things. When doctors tell you that it is all in your head, they are right. Wanting things to be a certain way and in perfect order creates the upsets in your life when the opposite shows up. If you relied on money in the bank to feel secure, you are the one who creates the fear of lack when your 401K shrinks in half. Believing that one special person will make you happy creates the sadness when you are alone. You are in charge of your inner peace, and by letting go of the need for external situations to be different you can find serenity right now.

You may argue that you need a house and a job and food, how can you let go of the need for the things that sustain you and your family? I am not saying that you should not want a nice home, good income, health and family, my point is that just worrying about it doesn’t change anything. Your thoughts create the panic about the situation which leads to more experiences that reflect those thoughts. When you let fear run your life, you ultimately draw more circumstances to you that mirror those fears. You can take action to improve your situation, and best results come when you hold your mind in the highest vibration of thought to attract what you desire. By doing this you can not only shift your destiny but attain a great feeling of inner peace during any conflict in your life. When your mind is calm and hopeful, your brilliance shines through and inspiration flows.

Challenges are a part of being human. Instead of looking at your situation as broken, see your circumstances as what you have to work with in this precious life. When you give up the idea that things are going to be ideal one day, you can relax in the uncomfortable times that every human faces. True bliss is surrendering to the moment. Knowing that everything that you identify as good or bad is temporary, you understand that this too will pass. I am not saying to just throw you hands up and let your whole life go to pieces, but use every obstacle as an opportunity to become stronger…fearless.

Think about a horror movie. At the beginning, they only show you the monster’s tail or shadow and it seems to be very frightening. Toward the end of the movie, after a dozen scenes of the monster in full view, you become desensitized and the creature seems less powerful. Just like any of our fears, when we just get a glimpse of a situation without examination, it can rule us. When you feel anxiety, ask yourself, “Why am I afraid of?” or “What belief do I have that created this fear?” Once you identity the true root of your panic, smile at your fearful thoughts directly and stop allowing them to control you. By giving light to the circumstance and understanding that the source of your pain is based on a false idea in your mind rather than the actual event, you can become the master of your life.

Sunrise Meditation

Watch this sunrise and enjoy inspirational words created by Debra Berndt, Love & Relationship Expert. View is from Westchester County, over the Long Island Sound. open source video, online video platform, video solution

Online Dating – When and How much do we open up?

I recently was interviewed by a writer on Match.com regarding the email communications between prospective online daters.  It made me realize how our dating society has changed.  In my dating days, I remember the difference in how men communicated with me after seeing my online dating ad.  Some jumped right in and gave me their life story in the first email, while others remained strangely aloof.  I remember one guy who gave me a 500 word essay email and I replied back with a short response, but told him I was interested.  A few days later when we tried to plan a date, he had already met someone else that he was “crazy” about.  That experience taught me to watch for the love wannabes – people looking for a relationship not a person.  A few of these jump in and out scenarios left me a little cautious when opening up to new prospective dates.  After learning my lesson, I saw how single men are so easy to read through their email communications.  I could always tell the womanizer, the shy guy and even the desperado looking for love with every person dating online.

Since online dating can be a scary thing, women often try to avoid getting too personal until they get to know the person.  But is overcaution causing them to miss out on a great available single guy just waiting to meet the right person?  When is it appropriate to open up and how much?  My rule of thumb always goes back to my intuition.  It has never been wrong.  Not to say I didn’t meet my share of jerks  when dating, but that was because I ignored my intuition because the guy was cute (my downfall).  Instead of opening up, I would put on my mask and pretend I was cool and into whatever they liked.  I watched myself to avoid getting into too deep of a conversation.  It seemed like I was getting closer to my dates, but I was actually building a bigger wedge between them and the real me.  My dating story always ended the same way, being rejected for the persona I was expressing because the guys can FEEL when you are faking it.  They might not know exactly what is wrong, but they know that something is off so they walk away.

After years of struggling in the dating world, I joined Great Expectations as a last ditch effort to find love.  I was not really excited about it, but a friend of mine worked there and pushed me to sign up.  As I pondered the questions and the dreaded “video” they have their single clients perform, I decided not to put on the mask anymore.  I felt like I had nothing to lose, so I was just going to lay it out.  I was real, honest and even a little sappy.  I wanted a spiritual guy who was into personal growth, I wanted a life partner, I wanted someone who was real.  I didn’t stretch the truth about my interest in sports. (In Colorado most guys want a girl who can hike a fourteener, ski or snowboard, etc.).  I was just being me and it paid off.  The very first guy to respond to my online ad was the love of my life.  We spoke for about an hour before we met and immediately connected.

Two years later, we are planning big dreams together and it is the healthiest relationship of my life.  I do not know think it matters how and when you open up to another person, as much as knowing you are finally ready to be real.  You are the only person that can tell you when the time is right and whether the person is right.  It doesn’t matter if you use match, great expectations, true.com or even those find a rich guy sites.  The important thing is to trust your gut, take it slow, and in the end… you just know.

If you need help opening up, I have a great relaxation self-hypnosis program called “Healing Heart” that helps you heal old wounds so that you can be open to love again.